I Want Her Back...

I have a friend which is a very respected person...I do respect her too and sometimes accept her wise advice...but I dunno why lately she seems too aggressive about her dreams and future or something...she told me that she NEED to be very good in studies and later in work because she has alot cousins that is very highly reputation and class...I dunno why she has to stress herself to be so good...aren't living as a normal human..study as much as you can..and give it a DOT...then you can relax...I hope i wrong about everything I thought about her....I want her back...the real her...