Am I really a girl Hurt-er?

I dunno even have I hurt a girl in this life or not....but it seems girl only can be very happy be with me, or very sad be with me...i not meaning girlfriend...i'm saying bout friends only...I hope I can change into a guy which won't hurt any girl in any ways.....but I dunno if I've ever hurt a girl....and what i've done so long in my life is correct or a mess.....